A video of Cody Conner, a Virginia Beach dad, is gaining attention on social media after he delivered a powerful speech at a school board meeting on October 10. Conner, the father of three, passionately spoke out against the “discriminatory policies” being implemented in Virginia schools. Specifically, he criticized Governor Youngkin’s “model policies” that require students to use facilities and participate in sports teams that align with their assigned sex. These policies also allow teachers to deadname students and require schools to inform parents if a student is questioning their gender identity. Conner expressed concern for his 13-year-old transgender daughter, who is now in the 8th grade.
Moved by his daughter’s situation, Conner has been speaking out at school board meetings to oppose these policies. Despite being a quiet person, he felt compelled to take a stand and show his child that he supports them. In his speech, Conner emphasized that the Proud Boys and the Moms for Liberty group, both considered hate groups by the Southern Poverty Law Center, support these discriminatory policies. He argued that the “good guys” would not align themselves with hate groups or promote such policies.
After numerous delays, Governor Youngkin’s policies are now being implemented in the Virginia Beach school system, prompting Conner to continue speaking out. He hopes to inspire and support the thousands of individuals whose lives are affected by the decisions made by the school board. Conner’s dedication to advocating for LGBTQ+ rights extends beyond his speeches. He is also an organizer with the trans rights nonprofit, the Calos Coalition, and recently helped organize a trans-Thanksgiving dinner to create a safe and welcoming space for the community.
Conner’s passionate speech and commitment to activism serve as a source of catharsis for the queer community. In a time when anti-LGBTQ+ laws are on the rise, Conner’s call to combat bigotry and homophobia resonates deeply. His actions exemplify true allyship and parenting, and he hopes to shape a future that embraces LGBTQ+ rights and acceptance.
